{"id":496,"date":"2023-07-11T22:12:32","date_gmt":"2023-07-11T22:12:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/maxwebsol.com\/aprilkirkwood\/?p=496"},"modified":"2023-07-19T13:45:11","modified_gmt":"2023-07-19T13:45:11","slug":"three-steps-to-finding-forgiveness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/maxwebsol.com\/aprilkirkwood\/2023\/07\/11\/three-steps-to-finding-forgiveness\/","title":{"rendered":"Three Steps to Finding Forgiveness"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"496\" class=\"elementor elementor-496\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-cb59190 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"cb59190\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-58ed708\" data-id=\"58ed708\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0a5aef3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"0a5aef3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! 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elementor - v3.14.0 - 26-06-2023 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p>We say we forgive but do we? Then there\u2019s the phrase, \u201cI forgive but I will never forget!\u201d I\u2019m never sure what that actually means in terms of actions. Holding a grudge is not forgiveness. Talking about it or thinking about the injustice is not forgiveness.. This is pretending to forgive to ease the conscience which by the way is never fulled because that inner secret place in your heart where your soul leaves know the truth. I have had thought that I needed to forgive people for what I perceived was an attack against me. This is what I found out and how I manage each day to find peace.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3735b9c elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3735b9c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Step One in forgiveness<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-021dfd6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"021dfd6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>But the Course in Miracles states that until we truly forgive, when we truly get it inside our being we understand that there was no wrong doing done to us. There is no real sin for them or yourself.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6154f7d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6154f7d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Emotions of jealously, envy, anger, frustration are illusions for your real self is unconditional life. Forgiveness is the core teaching of The Course In Miracles. I realize this is a lot to shallow. So let\u2019s back up. I wanted you to just read it. If you are perturbed set it aside. You have all the time in the world. 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Then there\u2019s the phrase, \u201cI forgive but I will never forget!\u201d I\u2019m never sure what that actually means in terms of actions. Holding a grudge is not forgiveness. 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